About Rhoberta Shaler, PhD

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, offers urgent and ongoing care for couples and companies globally.
She is the creator of Coupleology™: The Learnable Art of Healthy Relationship, and the author of fourteen books.

IMG_9984-1200Well-known for her gentle, effective blend of humor and practical wisdom, Dr. Shaler shares her insights as a relationship consultant, author and professional speaker. 

Working with people struggling with life, death, and relationship for over thirty years in Canada and the United States, Dr. Shaler has brought hope, comfort, strength, and success to countless people who honestly believed it was impossible. She now works with couples to restore their connection, improve their communication, and deepen their emotional intimacy.

Dr. Shaler calms the turbulence of troubled relationships. Relationships in conflict foster fear, frenzy and friction. She creates the insights, skills and space for new beginnings and positive re-connections. She offers the insights and pattern-breaking skills that lead to blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships.

Kaizen For Couples™: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship, her tenth book, is the summary of a lifetime of insights developed from working with real people confronting the real life challenges of living and loving together. It offers workable solutions to twenty-first century relationship issues and a new proven model for living the loving relationship you most want. Her latest book, THE HIJACKAL TRAP: Loving Someone Who SHOVES You Away Yet DEMANDS That You Stay, will be published in late 2015.

Dr. Shaler’s work has been featured on FoxNews, PsychCentral, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, The Good Men Project, eHarmony, Care2, Greatist, Pulse, and The Needs, among many others. Her YouTube channel, ForRelationshipHelp.com, is an evergreen source of practical insights and tips for relationships. Her newsletter and podcast, Coupleology: Vital Tips for Relationships, provides valuable strategies weekly.

Website & Podcasts:  www.Coupleology.com
Blog: www.ForRelationshipHelp.com
Speaker Site: www.RelationshipHelpDoctor.com
Facebook: www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor or  www.Facebook.com/Coupleology
Twitter: www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler or www.Twitter.com/Coupleology
LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Pinterest: www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler

Sought after by  committed couples who know they love each other and want their once-great relationships back, stronger, closer and more intimate, Dr. Shaler helps them with the insights and skills they need to create healthy relationships that support them to walk together united, through whatever life brings.

For workplace teams and executive clients, Dr. Shaler brings the insights, skills and strategies required to effectively manage conflicts and chronically difficult people.  She brings this wealth of experience to her speaking engagements.

g+-profile-OCDr. Shaler’s Optimize Institute & Center is in Escondido, CA in San Diego County.  where she offers ongoing classes, private sessions and weekend Retreats to gives couples the building blocks for creating blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships. Even when their relationships feel distant, rocky, broken, or hopeless, she guides them back to each other and gives them the insights and skills to unfold love, trust and intimacy in healthy ways that last.

She can be contacted directly at RS@ForRelationshipHelp.com   For further information about her work, visit ForRelationshipHelp.com